Lately ive heard alot of people saying someone is a bad mum, a good mum, or she dosnt know what she's doing!
so my question is, what makes a good mum?
is it spoiling your child?
not letting the child go out or anyone touch them just incase of germs?
how far is too far?
i know someone who has a 4 year old little boy and he dosnt eat anything! i mean anything except for biscuits and chips.. the mother dosnt try to change this or help her son and it breaks my heart to see this 4 year old is the same size and height as my 2 year old.. he is on a strict routine which dont get me wrong im all for the routines but his routine consists of: get up, get dressed, go to "school", come home sit and play by himself and only educational toys, then bath, dinner, bed by 7.30 if his lucky..
he isnt allowed to interact with other children outside of school..
this child is always sick and i ask myself is this because of his lifestyle?
now this mother has critised me on how i raise my kids saying not to force them to eat or he shouldnt be playing with this or that.
she has called me a bad mum cause i wanted to go out one night and tried to convince my husband to take my son off me.. luckily for him he ignored her lol..
but does wanting to go out for the first time in 9 months really make you a bad mum?
does me wanting whats best for my child make me a bad mum?
in my eyes a good mum is someone who loves her children, who is caring and protective to a certain extent.. someone that will always put her children first.
so isnt that what i do everyday of my life?
how does that make me a bad mum?
so my question is, what makes a good mum?
is it spoiling your child?
not letting the child go out or anyone touch them just incase of germs?
how far is too far?
i know someone who has a 4 year old little boy and he dosnt eat anything! i mean anything except for biscuits and chips.. the mother dosnt try to change this or help her son and it breaks my heart to see this 4 year old is the same size and height as my 2 year old.. he is on a strict routine which dont get me wrong im all for the routines but his routine consists of: get up, get dressed, go to "school", come home sit and play by himself and only educational toys, then bath, dinner, bed by 7.30 if his lucky..
he isnt allowed to interact with other children outside of school..
this child is always sick and i ask myself is this because of his lifestyle?
now this mother has critised me on how i raise my kids saying not to force them to eat or he shouldnt be playing with this or that.
she has called me a bad mum cause i wanted to go out one night and tried to convince my husband to take my son off me.. luckily for him he ignored her lol..
but does wanting to go out for the first time in 9 months really make you a bad mum?
does me wanting whats best for my child make me a bad mum?
in my eyes a good mum is someone who loves her children, who is caring and protective to a certain extent.. someone that will always put her children first.
so isnt that what i do everyday of my life?
how does that make me a bad mum?
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